"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Going away to college

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I go away to college to a state school in less then a month. I am ready to start all over again and be seen as a sexual being towards girls. Throughout high school i was doing pretty much everything wrong, like no confidence, way to nice, no kino, focusing on one girl at a time, not playing hard to get. When I found this site I was able to turn everything around and things started to turn around for me my senior year. Except girls that I was already in the friend zone with could not be changed. Anyway, there are only a few people from my high school going to my college and I am ready to become a DJ. Is there any tips for guys going away to college or any posts that are real good.

I will make tons of connections and meet everyone by joining clubs and staying active. When I meet a girl I will make sure that I throw something in there to show that I am a guy and I like chicks. Other then that I got nothing haha, maybe try to get into a leadership type position to have some power.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hey all i can say is good luck and practice before you leave to for college what do you got to lose also join a lot of clubs when you do go to college especially ones that you're interested in and can meet lots of women
 
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Congrats theNEWDJ!

Consider trying out for sports/athletics. Many colleges have gyms where you can workout so I will most definitely take advantage of looking good and feeling good thru exercise.

Lots of clubs on campus, depending on your interests. Science, engineering, psychology, etc. You name it there is a club for it. You get to meet people with similiar interests. Stay away from the feminist groups. haha

Have fun, and dont take it to the extreme. If you have a paper to write or an exam to study, do that. Ditch the party. Forming habits of self-motivation is the key to your success.

Don't stick yourself to one group or race for friends.

As with anything it is what you make it...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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