"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Going away to college

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theNEWDJ

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I go away to college to a state school in less then a month. I am ready to start all over again and be seen as a sexual being towards girls. Throughout high school i was doing pretty much everything wrong, like no confidence, way to nice, no kino, focusing on one girl at a time, not playing hard to get. When I found this site I was able to turn everything around and things started to turn around for me my senior year. Except girls that I was already in the friend zone with could not be changed. Anyway, there are only a few people from my high school going to my college and I am ready to become a DJ. Is there any tips for guys going away to college or any posts that are real good.

I will make tons of connections and meet everyone by joining clubs and staying active. When I meet a girl I will make sure that I throw something in there to show that I am a guy and I like chicks. Other then that I got nothing haha, maybe try to get into a leadership type position to have some power.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hey all i can say is good luck and practice before you leave to for college what do you got to lose also join a lot of clubs when you do go to college especially ones that you're interested in and can meet lots of women
 
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Congrats theNEWDJ!

Consider trying out for sports/athletics. Many colleges have gyms where you can workout so I will most definitely take advantage of looking good and feeling good thru exercise.

Lots of clubs on campus, depending on your interests. Science, engineering, psychology, etc. You name it there is a club for it. You get to meet people with similiar interests. Stay away from the feminist groups. haha

Have fun, and dont take it to the extreme. If you have a paper to write or an exam to study, do that. Ditch the party. Forming habits of self-motivation is the key to your success.

Don't stick yourself to one group or race for friends.

As with anything it is what you make it...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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