"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Going away in a week... any tips?

silverwex

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Hey guys,

A friend and myself are going away to England (Canterbury hopefully!) in about a week's time. It should build up my confidence as it's my first time living away from home which means Ill have to do a lot of things on my own.

Have any of you guys moved away to a new city recently? Any tips? Would b really helpful.

Thanks - oh and Ill try my best to post field reports!


SiLVerWeX
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bp1974

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No tips, just wanted to say congratulations. I remember it was quite something for you to take this step.

Actually, one tip. Eye contact is your friend. English girls respond really well to confident, sexy eye contact from an attractive stranger, despite appearances to the contrary.

All the best.
 

silverwex

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Hey BP, thanks for replying.

Yeah i chickened out first time but a mate is coming with me now so it sould be ok.

Where u based?

Do u think the irish accent is a turn on for english gals?

(God i love their accent!!!)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm in London. I think English girls like any accent except English. Just like Ozzie girls like any accent except Ozzie, etc.

Different=sexy
 

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I moved away to uni in the fall.... It was a big step but a very easy one. Just put everything into my room, went to school first days, got into the newstudents program with older students having groups they show around, throw parties for etc. Suddenly I had 30 new friends and 30 new numbers and it just grew from there.
 
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