"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Going away in a week... any tips?

silverwex

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Hey guys,

A friend and myself are going away to England (Canterbury hopefully!) in about a week's time. It should build up my confidence as it's my first time living away from home which means Ill have to do a lot of things on my own.

Have any of you guys moved away to a new city recently? Any tips? Would b really helpful.

Thanks - oh and Ill try my best to post field reports!


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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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No tips, just wanted to say congratulations. I remember it was quite something for you to take this step.

Actually, one tip. Eye contact is your friend. English girls respond really well to confident, sexy eye contact from an attractive stranger, despite appearances to the contrary.

All the best.
 

silverwex

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Hey BP, thanks for replying.

Yeah i chickened out first time but a mate is coming with me now so it sould be ok.

Where u based?

Do u think the irish accent is a turn on for english gals?

(God i love their accent!!!)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bp1974

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I'm in London. I think English girls like any accent except English. Just like Ozzie girls like any accent except Ozzie, etc.

Different=sexy
 

Kineti[C]harm

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I moved away to uni in the fall.... It was a big step but a very easy one. Just put everything into my room, went to school first days, got into the newstudents program with older students having groups they show around, throw parties for etc. Suddenly I had 30 new friends and 30 new numbers and it just grew from there.
 
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