"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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recently i met this beautiful girl and i think i like her more than a friend
but i believe i am still the friendship zone
tomorrow i will be going away for two months without seeing her at all (maybe through email or skype)
today i saw my friend was hitting on her and making her laugh a lot
i am afraid when i come back she will be someone's gf
what should i do? should i tell her how i feel? or just move on
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You're in the friendzone, you won't be able to get out, and you're an AFC.

Read:
-The DJ Bible (link down the bottom of the page)
-Articles on this site
-Anything by David DeAngelo
-Anything by "Mystery"

Once you've read that, go out and talk to women using the skills you have learned.

Good luck.

EDIT: In respone to the post below this one:

Don't ever "tell her how you feel". It's girl-repellent.

She only likes you as a friend. You will not be able to change that now.

Move on, forget talking to her over Skype or email, read what I said above, and meet other girls. You'll forget all about this one.

She is already messing around with guys. You need to change so you can be that guy.
 
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that does not answer what i asked :confused:
and yes i already read like 10+ articles... many are general ideas i'm aware of
 
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