"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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recently i met this beautiful girl and i think i like her more than a friend
but i believe i am still the friendship zone
tomorrow i will be going away for two months without seeing her at all (maybe through email or skype)
today i saw my friend was hitting on her and making her laugh a lot
i am afraid when i come back she will be someone's gf
what should i do? should i tell her how i feel? or just move on
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You're in the friendzone, you won't be able to get out, and you're an AFC.

Read:
-The DJ Bible (link down the bottom of the page)
-Articles on this site
-Anything by David DeAngelo
-Anything by "Mystery"

Once you've read that, go out and talk to women using the skills you have learned.

Good luck.

EDIT: In respone to the post below this one:

Don't ever "tell her how you feel". It's girl-repellent.

She only likes you as a friend. You will not be able to change that now.

Move on, forget talking to her over Skype or email, read what I said above, and meet other girls. You'll forget all about this one.

She is already messing around with guys. You need to change so you can be that guy.
 
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that does not answer what i asked :confused:
and yes i already read like 10+ articles... many are general ideas i'm aware of
 
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