"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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recently i met this beautiful girl and i think i like her more than a friend
but i believe i am still the friendship zone
tomorrow i will be going away for two months without seeing her at all (maybe through email or skype)
today i saw my friend was hitting on her and making her laugh a lot
i am afraid when i come back she will be someone's gf
what should i do? should i tell her how i feel? or just move on
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You're in the friendzone, you won't be able to get out, and you're an AFC.

Read:
-The DJ Bible (link down the bottom of the page)
-Articles on this site
-Anything by David DeAngelo
-Anything by "Mystery"

Once you've read that, go out and talk to women using the skills you have learned.

Good luck.

EDIT: In respone to the post below this one:

Don't ever "tell her how you feel". It's girl-repellent.

She only likes you as a friend. You will not be able to change that now.

Move on, forget talking to her over Skype or email, read what I said above, and meet other girls. You'll forget all about this one.

She is already messing around with guys. You need to change so you can be that guy.
 
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that does not answer what i asked :confused:
and yes i already read like 10+ articles... many are general ideas i'm aware of
 
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