I know this girl that I kind of like but she's had a boyfriend as long as i've known her (only a couple of months). Now it appears her relationship with him is pretty much over. Should I persue her or wait a little bit first? I've already asked her to hang out, so any comments on that too would be nice. Thanks guys.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Going after a girl who's on verge of breaking up with her boyfriend?
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go for it, if you even have the audacity to do such a thing, you PROBALY ALREADY HAVE COMPETITION! BEAT THE COMPETITION BEFORE IT WINS THE RACE!
My 2 cents:
Don't go for it, yet. At best you'll be the "rebound" guy at worst you'll be in the LJBF zone. You say her relationship is "pretty much" over. That means it is "not" over. Too early to turn AFC. Beware!
Cheers!
Don't go for it, yet. At best you'll be the "rebound" guy at worst you'll be in the LJBF zone. You say her relationship is "pretty much" over. That means it is "not" over. Too early to turn AFC. Beware!
Cheers!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
well I don't know if it's over for sure. I'm not her girlfriend so she doesn't keep me informed of these things. And I think it would be odd sounding if I just asked her if they were through, know what I mean?romangod said:My 2 cents:
Don't go for it, yet. At best you'll be the "rebound" guy at worst you'll be in the LJBF zone. You say her relationship is "pretty much" over. That means it is "not" over. Too early to turn AFC. Beware!
Cheers!