"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Going after a girl who's on verge of breaking up with her boyfriend?

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Kal0051

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I know this girl that I kind of like but she's had a boyfriend as long as i've known her (only a couple of months). Now it appears her relationship with him is pretty much over. Should I persue her or wait a little bit first? I've already asked her to hang out, so any comments on that too would be nice. Thanks guys.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Any other advice? I do appreciate your advice Captain, I kinda think the same way as you.
 
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go for it, if you even have the audacity to do such a thing, you PROBALY ALREADY HAVE COMPETITION! BEAT THE COMPETITION BEFORE IT WINS THE RACE!
 
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My 2 cents:

Don't go for it, yet. At best you'll be the "rebound" guy at worst you'll be in the LJBF zone. You say her relationship is "pretty much" over. That means it is "not" over. Too early to turn AFC. Beware!


Cheers!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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romangod said:
My 2 cents:

Don't go for it, yet. At best you'll be the "rebound" guy at worst you'll be in the LJBF zone. You say her relationship is "pretty much" over. That means it is "not" over. Too early to turn AFC. Beware!


Cheers!
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well I don't know if it's over for sure. I'm not her girlfriend so she doesn't keep me informed of these things. And I think it would be odd sounding if I just asked her if they were through, know what I mean?
 
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if you want to be the rebound then go for it, if you want a more serious relationship have patience till she calmed down and is over the previous relationship.
 
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