"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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goin to a all girl school with a very well needed wing man

duffman360

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i go to a all boy school " i know it's terrible no chicks". so any way i am thinkin of stopin by this all girl school to pick up chicks. but the problem is that most of my friends do after school things like play sports. also if i go alone i might appear a bit desperate or seem like a stalker. but if i come across a girl i like she might be with her group of friends. and i don't know how to separate her from the group by myself. if i had a wing man i could isolate the girl and flirt with her. and not worrying about her friend(s) being **** blocks. some advice would help
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rhoto

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A real Don needs no ****ing wing.

Think about it for a second. You're acting like if you find a girl at the school thats interested in you, she'll give you head then and there. Getting women you don't know to get frisky with you isn't a 1-2-3 step kinda thing.

Try going to a game or something, volley ball, soccer whatever. Make some **** up like your sister wants to go here blah blah, and ask girls what they think of the school, the fact that it has no guys, do they get lonely? Is it hard to only have to deal with girls?

Going by yourself to an all girls, (I'll assume Catholic), school, is like going to a ****ing buffet. Are your schools linked in any way? Use that to your advantage. Bring a wingman if you want, but scope out the scene first.

If you're the scholastic type, maybe offer tutoring services.
 

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1. You don't need a wing even though it maybe helpful if your actually going to try and pull right then and there
2. You CAN go by yourself...it isn't creepy

I don't know where the whole idea of it being creepy that you go to an all girl school, who the heck is going to know your purpose of going there. For all they know you could be waiting for your gf, you could be waiting for your sister. You actually think girls are going to stand there thinking "O he is here to pickup chicks".

Even if you have a friend you have a friend your still going to have to interact with the girls friends, because they can still cokblock.

Basically, go there and just chat chicks up, you don't even have to so call GAME. Your just there having a good time interacting with people and you just so happen to get her #.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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duffman360 said:
yeah that all girl school is my all boy school sister school.
Then you should get an auto-invite to their dances, mixers and stuff right?
 
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