"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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goin to a all girl school with a very well needed wing man

duffman360

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i go to a all boy school " i know it's terrible no chicks". so any way i am thinkin of stopin by this all girl school to pick up chicks. but the problem is that most of my friends do after school things like play sports. also if i go alone i might appear a bit desperate or seem like a stalker. but if i come across a girl i like she might be with her group of friends. and i don't know how to separate her from the group by myself. if i had a wing man i could isolate the girl and flirt with her. and not worrying about her friend(s) being **** blocks. some advice would help
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rhoto

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A real Don needs no ****ing wing.

Think about it for a second. You're acting like if you find a girl at the school thats interested in you, she'll give you head then and there. Getting women you don't know to get frisky with you isn't a 1-2-3 step kinda thing.

Try going to a game or something, volley ball, soccer whatever. Make some **** up like your sister wants to go here blah blah, and ask girls what they think of the school, the fact that it has no guys, do they get lonely? Is it hard to only have to deal with girls?

Going by yourself to an all girls, (I'll assume Catholic), school, is like going to a ****ing buffet. Are your schools linked in any way? Use that to your advantage. Bring a wingman if you want, but scope out the scene first.

If you're the scholastic type, maybe offer tutoring services.
 

Snow Plowman

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1. You don't need a wing even though it maybe helpful if your actually going to try and pull right then and there
2. You CAN go by yourself...it isn't creepy

I don't know where the whole idea of it being creepy that you go to an all girl school, who the heck is going to know your purpose of going there. For all they know you could be waiting for your gf, you could be waiting for your sister. You actually think girls are going to stand there thinking "O he is here to pickup chicks".

Even if you have a friend you have a friend your still going to have to interact with the girls friends, because they can still cokblock.

Basically, go there and just chat chicks up, you don't even have to so call GAME. Your just there having a good time interacting with people and you just so happen to get her #.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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duffman360 said:
yeah that all girl school is my all boy school sister school.
Then you should get an auto-invite to their dances, mixers and stuff right?
 
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