"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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goin to a all girl school with a very well needed wing man

duffman360

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i go to a all boy school " i know it's terrible no chicks". so any way i am thinkin of stopin by this all girl school to pick up chicks. but the problem is that most of my friends do after school things like play sports. also if i go alone i might appear a bit desperate or seem like a stalker. but if i come across a girl i like she might be with her group of friends. and i don't know how to separate her from the group by myself. if i had a wing man i could isolate the girl and flirt with her. and not worrying about her friend(s) being **** blocks. some advice would help
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rhoto

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A real Don needs no ****ing wing.

Think about it for a second. You're acting like if you find a girl at the school thats interested in you, she'll give you head then and there. Getting women you don't know to get frisky with you isn't a 1-2-3 step kinda thing.

Try going to a game or something, volley ball, soccer whatever. Make some **** up like your sister wants to go here blah blah, and ask girls what they think of the school, the fact that it has no guys, do they get lonely? Is it hard to only have to deal with girls?

Going by yourself to an all girls, (I'll assume Catholic), school, is like going to a ****ing buffet. Are your schools linked in any way? Use that to your advantage. Bring a wingman if you want, but scope out the scene first.

If you're the scholastic type, maybe offer tutoring services.
 

Snow Plowman

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1. You don't need a wing even though it maybe helpful if your actually going to try and pull right then and there
2. You CAN go by yourself...it isn't creepy

I don't know where the whole idea of it being creepy that you go to an all girl school, who the heck is going to know your purpose of going there. For all they know you could be waiting for your gf, you could be waiting for your sister. You actually think girls are going to stand there thinking "O he is here to pickup chicks".

Even if you have a friend you have a friend your still going to have to interact with the girls friends, because they can still cokblock.

Basically, go there and just chat chicks up, you don't even have to so call GAME. Your just there having a good time interacting with people and you just so happen to get her #.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Rhoto

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duffman360 said:
yeah that all girl school is my all boy school sister school.
Then you should get an auto-invite to their dances, mixers and stuff right?
 
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