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We're getting old...:rockon:Francisco d'Anconia said:I love it when 20-somethings talk about the good old days.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
We're getting old...:rockon:Francisco d'Anconia said:I love it when 20-somethings talk about the good old days.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I have vivid memories from two decades ago, and things were incredibly different back then. It's not like I'm a kid anymore.Francisco d'Anconia said:I love it when 20-somethings talk about the good old days.
I would have LOVED to live in the 80s...well since i was born in 83 i did but to be a teen in the 80s must have been awesome...and that was when music was actually music!!! I loved watching "The Goonies" and listening to the Cyndi Lauper song...i think it was called "Good Enough"...that song is awesome.lookyoung said:The 90's were good but the 80's were even better.
you forgot the lord of all fighting games KILLER INSTINCT.MikeYikes122 said:Even if you like modern video games more, you have to admit no fighting game will ever top Mortal Kombat II or Street Fighter.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I love it when I make 40-somethings feel old. :yawn:Francisco d'Anconia said:I love it when 20-somethings talk about the good old days.
Not really. If you remember, literally the week before Smells Like Teen Spirit hit the charts, Michael Jackson and hair bands like Poison dominated the mainstream. Things weren't the same after Nirvana hit. Nirvana and all those other grunge bands ushered out the corniness and bad musicianship that were all those glam rock bands.meitenesrigas said:Emo is just grunge with makeup.
When you do let us know, so far you've only been amusing us like a puppy chasing his tail. :yawn:MikeYikes122 said:I love it when I make 40-somethings feel old. :yawn:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Boy Bands have been around since at least the 50's. Probably earlier than that. The Jackson 5 were probably the most famous Boy Band of all time. That was the 70's.fuzzx said:Um Boy bands started in the late 80s early 90s dude, and I happen to like their music quite a bit. DO you realize the early 00s punk groups are actually just the boy band reaction to male teenagers. They are the exact same thing but for males. Its called Punk Pop. It happens to be good also. I think alot of guys just had massive insecurity issues where the BSB and NSYNC were pulling HUGE amounts of pvssy, alot more than any DJ will probably ever see.
I think the crappy part of the 90s was Alternative rock, and late 90s gangster Rap. Also Nirvana (who's sound completely sucked)
Some other good stuff to come out of the 90s (Commercialized Rave Music, ala Robert Miles and Paul Van Dyk) , Terminator 2, Batman, Episode 1
The 80s definitely has to be the golden age for all things music, movies, style toys and video games. I remember pumping quarters into Galaxian, Space Invaders, Battlezone and Pacman all day long at the arcade... oh and especially that Star Wars game where you sat inside the ****pit. Arcades were also 'The Place to go' after school which continued into the mid part of the 90s where the ps1 began to takeover the scene. The toys were also some of the best, I mean probably every person with at least one friend on here owned star wars guys, GIJOEs, M.U.S.C.L.E.S, Transformers, Go Bots, Star Trek, Battle Star Galactica, Micro Machines, He-Man (the slime castle), Hot Wheels, Dungeons & Dragons, Comic Books, War Hammer 40k, Green Army Men, RC Cars, Care Bears or that strange pencil case that was all compartmentalized and had buttons on it that would shoot out little drawers..
Notable toys of the 90s: Bucky O Hare.
Damn man if you don't like the thread then don't read it.Francisco d'Anconia said:When you do let us know, so far you've only been amusing us like a puppy chasing his tail. :yawn:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DJDamage said:And there were no MP3s or music sharing websites, You wanted to steal music, you had to go to the record store and shoplift it yourself!
YepMaster Bates said:Did you just list Encino Man as an example of why the 90s were better?
Aw grow up.MikeYikes122 said:Damn man if you don't like the thread then don't read it.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.