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Master Don Juan
We're getting old...:rockon:Francisco d'Anconia said:I love it when 20-somethings talk about the good old days.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
We're getting old...:rockon:Francisco d'Anconia said:I love it when 20-somethings talk about the good old days.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I have vivid memories from two decades ago, and things were incredibly different back then. It's not like I'm a kid anymore.Francisco d'Anconia said:I love it when 20-somethings talk about the good old days.
I would have LOVED to live in the 80s...well since i was born in 83 i did but to be a teen in the 80s must have been awesome...and that was when music was actually music!!! I loved watching "The Goonies" and listening to the Cyndi Lauper song...i think it was called "Good Enough"...that song is awesome.lookyoung said:The 90's were good but the 80's were even better.
you forgot the lord of all fighting games KILLER INSTINCT.MikeYikes122 said:Even if you like modern video games more, you have to admit no fighting game will ever top Mortal Kombat II or Street Fighter.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I love it when I make 40-somethings feel old. :yawn:Francisco d'Anconia said:I love it when 20-somethings talk about the good old days.
Not really. If you remember, literally the week before Smells Like Teen Spirit hit the charts, Michael Jackson and hair bands like Poison dominated the mainstream. Things weren't the same after Nirvana hit. Nirvana and all those other grunge bands ushered out the corniness and bad musicianship that were all those glam rock bands.meitenesrigas said:Emo is just grunge with makeup.
When you do let us know, so far you've only been amusing us like a puppy chasing his tail. :yawn:MikeYikes122 said:I love it when I make 40-somethings feel old. :yawn:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Boy Bands have been around since at least the 50's. Probably earlier than that. The Jackson 5 were probably the most famous Boy Band of all time. That was the 70's.fuzzx said:Um Boy bands started in the late 80s early 90s dude, and I happen to like their music quite a bit. DO you realize the early 00s punk groups are actually just the boy band reaction to male teenagers. They are the exact same thing but for males. Its called Punk Pop. It happens to be good also. I think alot of guys just had massive insecurity issues where the BSB and NSYNC were pulling HUGE amounts of pvssy, alot more than any DJ will probably ever see.
I think the crappy part of the 90s was Alternative rock, and late 90s gangster Rap. Also Nirvana (who's sound completely sucked)
Some other good stuff to come out of the 90s (Commercialized Rave Music, ala Robert Miles and Paul Van Dyk) , Terminator 2, Batman, Episode 1
The 80s definitely has to be the golden age for all things music, movies, style toys and video games. I remember pumping quarters into Galaxian, Space Invaders, Battlezone and Pacman all day long at the arcade... oh and especially that Star Wars game where you sat inside the ****pit. Arcades were also 'The Place to go' after school which continued into the mid part of the 90s where the ps1 began to takeover the scene. The toys were also some of the best, I mean probably every person with at least one friend on here owned star wars guys, GIJOEs, M.U.S.C.L.E.S, Transformers, Go Bots, Star Trek, Battle Star Galactica, Micro Machines, He-Man (the slime castle), Hot Wheels, Dungeons & Dragons, Comic Books, War Hammer 40k, Green Army Men, RC Cars, Care Bears or that strange pencil case that was all compartmentalized and had buttons on it that would shoot out little drawers..
Notable toys of the 90s: Bucky O Hare.
Damn man if you don't like the thread then don't read it.Francisco d'Anconia said:When you do let us know, so far you've only been amusing us like a puppy chasing his tail. :yawn:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
DJDamage said:And there were no MP3s or music sharing websites, You wanted to steal music, you had to go to the record store and shoplift it yourself!
YepMaster Bates said:Did you just list Encino Man as an example of why the 90s were better?
Aw grow up.MikeYikes122 said:Damn man if you don't like the thread then don't read it.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.