"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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GOD DAMNIT having 2 gf = hard. NEED HELP

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Dont say Gd.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DJ4Real

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You are seriously trying to make yourself go crazy by having more than one girlfriend. You know as well as anyone else that women are complicated as he!!. You're going to have to pick one girl before you lose your mind.:cool:
 

SlyD4rK

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Originally posted by DJ4Real
You are seriously trying to make yourself go crazy by having more than one girlfriend. You know as well as anyone else that women are complicated as he!!. You're going to have to pick one girl before you lose your mind.:cool:
Ehh...i don't know....I'm seeing 2 girls and i'm C&Fing every girl i talk to, it isnt that hard...you just can't think about it too much. And try to let the girl know that she has competition (Subtly though...don't flat out tell her that) she will up her game and try to be your primary...want good advice? DONT LET HER BECOME YOUR PRIMARY and she will be constantly thinking "I wonder if he likes me?" and don't forget the power of Detachment. Try not to get attached to some girl just because things are going your way.

and BTW DJ4Real we both have 100 posts w00t!
 

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I can see why you would want two GF's. I would too, but it would also be better with just one. There are benefits to both sides.

Just ditch them both, and get another GF. I mean, don't go to the bonfire, and keep the first one, and get another girlfriend, making your total = 3.

And send pictures.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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