"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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GOD DAMNIT having 2 gf = hard. NEED HELP

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Dont say Gd.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJ4Real

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You are seriously trying to make yourself go crazy by having more than one girlfriend. You know as well as anyone else that women are complicated as he!!. You're going to have to pick one girl before you lose your mind.:cool:
 

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Originally posted by DJ4Real
You are seriously trying to make yourself go crazy by having more than one girlfriend. You know as well as anyone else that women are complicated as he!!. You're going to have to pick one girl before you lose your mind.:cool:
Ehh...i don't know....I'm seeing 2 girls and i'm C&Fing every girl i talk to, it isnt that hard...you just can't think about it too much. And try to let the girl know that she has competition (Subtly though...don't flat out tell her that) she will up her game and try to be your primary...want good advice? DONT LET HER BECOME YOUR PRIMARY and she will be constantly thinking "I wonder if he likes me?" and don't forget the power of Detachment. Try not to get attached to some girl just because things are going your way.

and BTW DJ4Real we both have 100 posts w00t!
 

08aisaac

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I can see why you would want two GF's. I would too, but it would also be better with just one. There are benefits to both sides.

Just ditch them both, and get another GF. I mean, don't go to the bonfire, and keep the first one, and get another girlfriend, making your total = 3.

And send pictures.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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