"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

GOD DAMNIT having 2 gf = hard. NEED HELP

Joined
Jun 10, 2005
Messages
188
Reaction score
0
Location
USA, KY
Dont say Gd.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

DJ4Real

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 6, 2005
Messages
942
Reaction score
0
You are seriously trying to make yourself go crazy by having more than one girlfriend. You know as well as anyone else that women are complicated as he!!. You're going to have to pick one girl before you lose your mind.:cool:
 

SlyD4rK

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 7, 2005
Messages
159
Reaction score
0
Age
37
Location
Monterey Bay, CA
Originally posted by DJ4Real
You are seriously trying to make yourself go crazy by having more than one girlfriend. You know as well as anyone else that women are complicated as he!!. You're going to have to pick one girl before you lose your mind.:cool:
Ehh...i don't know....I'm seeing 2 girls and i'm C&Fing every girl i talk to, it isnt that hard...you just can't think about it too much. And try to let the girl know that she has competition (Subtly though...don't flat out tell her that) she will up her game and try to be your primary...want good advice? DONT LET HER BECOME YOUR PRIMARY and she will be constantly thinking "I wonder if he likes me?" and don't forget the power of Detachment. Try not to get attached to some girl just because things are going your way.

and BTW DJ4Real we both have 100 posts w00t!
 

08aisaac

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 22, 2005
Messages
740
Reaction score
1
Age
36
I can see why you would want two GF's. I would too, but it would also be better with just one. There are benefits to both sides.

Just ditch them both, and get another GF. I mean, don't go to the bonfire, and keep the first one, and get another girlfriend, making your total = 3.

And send pictures.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Top