"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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GOD DAMNIT having 2 gf = hard. NEED HELP

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Dont say Gd.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJ4Real

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You are seriously trying to make yourself go crazy by having more than one girlfriend. You know as well as anyone else that women are complicated as he!!. You're going to have to pick one girl before you lose your mind.:cool:
 

SlyD4rK

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Originally posted by DJ4Real
You are seriously trying to make yourself go crazy by having more than one girlfriend. You know as well as anyone else that women are complicated as he!!. You're going to have to pick one girl before you lose your mind.:cool:
Ehh...i don't know....I'm seeing 2 girls and i'm C&Fing every girl i talk to, it isnt that hard...you just can't think about it too much. And try to let the girl know that she has competition (Subtly though...don't flat out tell her that) she will up her game and try to be your primary...want good advice? DONT LET HER BECOME YOUR PRIMARY and she will be constantly thinking "I wonder if he likes me?" and don't forget the power of Detachment. Try not to get attached to some girl just because things are going your way.

and BTW DJ4Real we both have 100 posts w00t!
 

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I can see why you would want two GF's. I would too, but it would also be better with just one. There are benefits to both sides.

Just ditch them both, and get another GF. I mean, don't go to the bonfire, and keep the first one, and get another girlfriend, making your total = 3.

And send pictures.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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