"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Goal Planner?

Sojourn

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Hello guys I need help. Recently I have been working on my own personal development. I finally feel like I have the focus, and desire to actually succeed and attain my goals. I made a log of my goals. For instance I have several different goals I am working on right now. Some of them are learning to play the guitar, piano, Japanese, learning how to type faster, loosing weight, etc... I have been keeping track of all this in a journal. It has only been 2 weeks where I have taking this seriously and my journal is really messy.

What I do in my journal is have my goal followed by the seven days of the week. Each day has a box and I have put how many hours I put into that specific goal in the box for the day. Like this

Piano

Mon Tues Wed Thurs Friday Sat Sun Total
[120min] [90min] [60min] [60min] [60min] [45min] [45min] [8hours]


I tried doing this in excel but I don't know how to make it calculate the totals by itself. I want this to be as accurate as possible, and I know I will make mistakes if I do it in a journal. What I need is some sort of goal planner. Something that can do all of this for me. Does anyone know of a program that could do something like this? Or does anyone know how to make excel calculate totals for me? Thanks in advanced.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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spider_007

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on the right hand side of the tool bar there is "help" button......use it, it's vary "helpfull":whistle:

I've done this too...i have a whole folder which is pasword protected and contains:

-excel of my week/month/year budget
-to do list (in word doc.) - night classes to take
------------------------- things i wanna learn
------------------------- hobies i want to get into
------------------------- my bucket list (half crossed off already, i'll have to add some more)
-Personal Code of Ethics - Core belifs
-------------------------Relationships
-------------------------discipline
------------------------ things to keep in mind

I open it once a day and ask my slef: "what can i do today to get closer to my goals and to being the pearson i wanna be."

http://mensselfesteem.mypodcast.com/
 
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Taviii

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Why don't you share your goals with us spider, especially the bucket list that you said is half crossed, it is always inspiring.
 
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