"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Goal Planner?

Sojourn

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Hello guys I need help. Recently I have been working on my own personal development. I finally feel like I have the focus, and desire to actually succeed and attain my goals. I made a log of my goals. For instance I have several different goals I am working on right now. Some of them are learning to play the guitar, piano, Japanese, learning how to type faster, loosing weight, etc... I have been keeping track of all this in a journal. It has only been 2 weeks where I have taking this seriously and my journal is really messy.

What I do in my journal is have my goal followed by the seven days of the week. Each day has a box and I have put how many hours I put into that specific goal in the box for the day. Like this

Piano

Mon Tues Wed Thurs Friday Sat Sun Total
[120min] [90min] [60min] [60min] [60min] [45min] [45min] [8hours]


I tried doing this in excel but I don't know how to make it calculate the totals by itself. I want this to be as accurate as possible, and I know I will make mistakes if I do it in a journal. What I need is some sort of goal planner. Something that can do all of this for me. Does anyone know of a program that could do something like this? Or does anyone know how to make excel calculate totals for me? Thanks in advanced.
 

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For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

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spider_007

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on the right hand side of the tool bar there is "help" button......use it, it's vary "helpfull":whistle:

I've done this too...i have a whole folder which is pasword protected and contains:

-excel of my week/month/year budget
-to do list (in word doc.) - night classes to take
------------------------- things i wanna learn
------------------------- hobies i want to get into
------------------------- my bucket list (half crossed off already, i'll have to add some more)
-Personal Code of Ethics - Core belifs
-------------------------Relationships
-------------------------discipline
------------------------ things to keep in mind

I open it once a day and ask my slef: "what can i do today to get closer to my goals and to being the pearson i wanna be."

http://mensselfesteem.mypodcast.com/
 
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Taviii

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Why don't you share your goals with us spider, especially the bucket list that you said is half crossed, it is always inspiring.
 
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