"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ShizamDaMan

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Get to the gym.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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S1NN3R

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Hot Or Not hotness formula. For men: Start at -4 and add (+5) for shirtless pic, (+4) for hairless chest, (+4) for no missing teeth, (+1) for puppy.

For women start at +5 and add (+5) for cleavage.
 
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tom121

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HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA

you could pass up as a drag queen easily
 

librito

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you are a good looking guy man...
I wish I looked like you......the funny thing is that right now I can pull girls from anywhere and anytime.its all about confidence.
just hit the gym a little and work on your insecurities. thats all.
keep on learning and practicing....
 

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you look geniunely happy
yay !:rock:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Natch

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Dude u look okay to me.
At the moment you've got that kinda "guy next door" look that women will find comforting.

Tho cos you don't have that "I'm an alphamale and I'm menaer than you" look or physique , you won't have much room for being any kind of a ***** near an attractive woman, but then who does ?

If you wanted to improve it , get a haircut more regularly and hit the gym , but you should do that only cos *you* want to.

Like wheelin&dealin sez , good enough to get any girl you want, looks should be no problem for you.
 

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Were you shy? or is your face alway red
 

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Upper said:
how does one lose chin and/or cheek fats?
Same way you lose other fats, just that chin and cheek is almost always the last to go... so basically... cut like a mofo. I read somewhere that facial massages help as well. Not sure if i believe that, but it's worth a try i guess.

donjuanapprentice01, good picture, one small remark though. You have VERY oily skin! This is no big deal but it does make you look greasy if you don't pay special attention to it. Get a soap that's specifically for frequent use and oily skin, consider washing your face multiple times a day AND (if you want to take it that far) consider adapting your diet to eat less fatty foods.

Oily skin makes you look "polished" somehow, not silky at all and it's something women pick up on easy. I have the same problem, i use a special soap and it's also gotten much better since i changed my diet!
 

Jerry Maguire

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I'd definitely get your hair styled.
Lose a bit of body fat.

Most importantly though is the hair, imo, it has to change.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I agree about the Oily skin thing.....thats the biggest issue. Your complextion.
 

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You asked for constructive criticism, so I'll be honest. I think you could benefit a lot from losing some bodyfat. You have decent looks, but the extra weight gives you a cuddly, non-sexual presence. This was the case with me when I was carrying extra weight and many other guys I know. Have a read in the health and fitness forum and (most important of all) educate yourself on weightloss, and try to get a decent diet and exercise routine.

I also agree with comments about your hair. Again, it has that safe, non-sexual look. Try to go with something more modern, or have it cut very short.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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