"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

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Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gloves versus Bare Handed

Being_the_Don

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There is some debate as to the use of gloves or going bare handed when working out in the gym. When I started going to the gym January 2007 I didn't use gloves, I was working out on the machines. After I got into free weights I decided to use gloves. I did it because I was able to get a much better workout, it actually improved my grip when doing most exercises. Now I rarely go to the gym without my gloves; when it does happen it's because I happened to forget them at home. Some months ago I forgot my gloves and it just so happened to be my deadlifting day. I was able to perform my workout but I noticed that I had rubbed open a callous on my left hand. The pain actually inspired me to push on and increase my weight (I was lifting well under 300 pounds back then) but in the back of my mind I began to think about bacteria and other pathogens that are present in the gym. From a strictly health and safety standpoint, I think gloves should be used at least as a safety precaution. Sure you can wipe down the bench before and after you use it, but how practical is it to clean the bars, dumbbells and weights that you'll be using?

When we work out our immune systems temporarily become compromised due to the fact that a lot of protein is being diverted from maintenance functions to the muscles to support your workout. So your chances of catching a cold following a gym workout actually increase. With that in mind, just to be on the safe side, I think wearing gloves is a small price to pay so that I can keep working out without worrying about cathcing a cold and becoming side lined.

What are your opinions on this?
 

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Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Triple T

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Kerpal said:
I don't use gloves, but I just started using chalk. Chalk dries your hands out so you can lift a lot more weight, and they stop your hands from getting all cut up by the knurling on the bar. I used to rip open calluses on my hands every time I deadlift, but not anymore.
Yea I hate calluses...I might get some gloves but I like the feel of the cold bar on my bare hands.

I'll have to try chalk sometime...
 

HandyAndy

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I always wear gloves unless I forget them, its way more comfortable and I feel like I can lift more using gloves as opposed to bare hands. Mine have wrist wraps so thats re-assuring too.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The bar will still slip and slide with gloves, and you will still get calluses when pulling heavy.


Chalk is helpful but so far I haven't had a need for it, I just wash my hands with soap and water to get them dry and sticky then I'll use some of the paper towels in the gym dispenser and wrap it around the bar to help absorb any sweat.

I think when you first start weightlifting gloves are kinda cool and helpful, but as you become more experienced your body gets tougher and you will lose the need for gloves.
 

kickureface

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HandyAndy said:
No, I think gloves give you better grip. Unless your hands are as rough as fabric.
you'll see one day on deadlifts and other exercises.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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