"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Gloves versus Bare Handed

Being_the_Don

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There is some debate as to the use of gloves or going bare handed when working out in the gym. When I started going to the gym January 2007 I didn't use gloves, I was working out on the machines. After I got into free weights I decided to use gloves. I did it because I was able to get a much better workout, it actually improved my grip when doing most exercises. Now I rarely go to the gym without my gloves; when it does happen it's because I happened to forget them at home. Some months ago I forgot my gloves and it just so happened to be my deadlifting day. I was able to perform my workout but I noticed that I had rubbed open a callous on my left hand. The pain actually inspired me to push on and increase my weight (I was lifting well under 300 pounds back then) but in the back of my mind I began to think about bacteria and other pathogens that are present in the gym. From a strictly health and safety standpoint, I think gloves should be used at least as a safety precaution. Sure you can wipe down the bench before and after you use it, but how practical is it to clean the bars, dumbbells and weights that you'll be using?

When we work out our immune systems temporarily become compromised due to the fact that a lot of protein is being diverted from maintenance functions to the muscles to support your workout. So your chances of catching a cold following a gym workout actually increase. With that in mind, just to be on the safe side, I think wearing gloves is a small price to pay so that I can keep working out without worrying about cathcing a cold and becoming side lined.

What are your opinions on this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Triple T

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Kerpal said:
I don't use gloves, but I just started using chalk. Chalk dries your hands out so you can lift a lot more weight, and they stop your hands from getting all cut up by the knurling on the bar. I used to rip open calluses on my hands every time I deadlift, but not anymore.
Yea I hate calluses...I might get some gloves but I like the feel of the cold bar on my bare hands.

I'll have to try chalk sometime...
 

HandyAndy

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I always wear gloves unless I forget them, its way more comfortable and I feel like I can lift more using gloves as opposed to bare hands. Mine have wrist wraps so thats re-assuring too.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The bar will still slip and slide with gloves, and you will still get calluses when pulling heavy.


Chalk is helpful but so far I haven't had a need for it, I just wash my hands with soap and water to get them dry and sticky then I'll use some of the paper towels in the gym dispenser and wrap it around the bar to help absorb any sweat.

I think when you first start weightlifting gloves are kinda cool and helpful, but as you become more experienced your body gets tougher and you will lose the need for gloves.
 

kickureface

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HandyAndy said:
No, I think gloves give you better grip. Unless your hands are as rough as fabric.
you'll see one day on deadlifts and other exercises.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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