"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Gloves versus Bare Handed

Being_the_Don

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 4, 2007
Messages
752
Reaction score
6
There is some debate as to the use of gloves or going bare handed when working out in the gym. When I started going to the gym January 2007 I didn't use gloves, I was working out on the machines. After I got into free weights I decided to use gloves. I did it because I was able to get a much better workout, it actually improved my grip when doing most exercises. Now I rarely go to the gym without my gloves; when it does happen it's because I happened to forget them at home. Some months ago I forgot my gloves and it just so happened to be my deadlifting day. I was able to perform my workout but I noticed that I had rubbed open a callous on my left hand. The pain actually inspired me to push on and increase my weight (I was lifting well under 300 pounds back then) but in the back of my mind I began to think about bacteria and other pathogens that are present in the gym. From a strictly health and safety standpoint, I think gloves should be used at least as a safety precaution. Sure you can wipe down the bench before and after you use it, but how practical is it to clean the bars, dumbbells and weights that you'll be using?

When we work out our immune systems temporarily become compromised due to the fact that a lot of protein is being diverted from maintenance functions to the muscles to support your workout. So your chances of catching a cold following a gym workout actually increase. With that in mind, just to be on the safe side, I think wearing gloves is a small price to pay so that I can keep working out without worrying about cathcing a cold and becoming side lined.

What are your opinions on this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Triple T

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 13, 2007
Messages
399
Reaction score
5
Kerpal said:
I don't use gloves, but I just started using chalk. Chalk dries your hands out so you can lift a lot more weight, and they stop your hands from getting all cut up by the knurling on the bar. I used to rip open calluses on my hands every time I deadlift, but not anymore.
Yea I hate calluses...I might get some gloves but I like the feel of the cold bar on my bare hands.

I'll have to try chalk sometime...
 

HandyAndy

Banned
Joined
Aug 18, 2007
Messages
2,127
Reaction score
21
Location
SoCal!
I always wear gloves unless I forget them, its way more comfortable and I feel like I can lift more using gloves as opposed to bare hands. Mine have wrist wraps so thats re-assuring too.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

JohnnyIrish

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 10, 2007
Messages
590
Reaction score
2
Location
NJ, USA

Drum&Bass

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 13, 2005
Messages
1,190
Reaction score
35
Age
46
Location
I travel
The bar will still slip and slide with gloves, and you will still get calluses when pulling heavy.


Chalk is helpful but so far I haven't had a need for it, I just wash my hands with soap and water to get them dry and sticky then I'll use some of the paper towels in the gym dispenser and wrap it around the bar to help absorb any sweat.

I think when you first start weightlifting gloves are kinda cool and helpful, but as you become more experienced your body gets tougher and you will lose the need for gloves.
 

kickureface

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 23, 2006
Messages
713
Reaction score
1
HandyAndy said:
No, I think gloves give you better grip. Unless your hands are as rough as fabric.
you'll see one day on deadlifts and other exercises.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Top