"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Glasses / Walking

sambuka

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Hi Everybody,

I'm brand new to this, and so far have found the reading both enjoyable and totally useable. I have yet to do my 50 hello's, I just started myself yesterday - did the first week of reading.

So I went out today to a popular coffee shop and noticed about 5-10 "looks" that I got. But dammit, I just couldn't say, "Hello!" I felt like a Prince (or at least convinced myself of that), but I just couldn't say anything. What's worse is that the eye contact was good. Occasionally girls were checking me out. This one way-too-hot girl didn't even look in my direction though. Damn, she was a total 10.

Anyway, I was wondering if people are having better success with this walking or sitting down at a cafe. I like the cafe, because in this Canadian city (Playboy named home of some of the hottest girls in the world), so many of them flock to this one particular spot.

Oh, I should say that I was reading a book if that matters.

Also, I just got prescribed glasses (fortunetly I've been told that I look totally hot with them). But it seems that this would limit my chances with eye contact. Can anybody react to this?

Thanks everybody. Seriously love this site.

SAMBUKA
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mjfan12

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I have glasses too, but I only wear them in the house, or if I look like crap and I dont care.

Other than that I wear contacts. Get them, you'll look much better.
 

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It depends, post a picture. If you are handsome, and muscular - wearing glasses will not affect you , infact it will ENHANCE your appearance and attract more girls cause glasses = universal sign of smartness.

But if you're not good looking, not muscular - this can hurt you. and it'll become a universal sign of geekiness.
 

Morphiex

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Originally posted by darthsidious
It depends, post a picture. If you are handsome, and muscular - wearing glasses will not affect you , infact it will ENHANCE your appearance and attract more girls cause glasses = universal sign of smartness.

But if you're not good looking, not muscular - this can hurt you. and it'll become a universal sign of geekiness.
very true =)

Also dont wear glases to nightclubs and such but if u need them during daytime and so, do wear them....
I remember when i got glasses all the girls came up to me and said that i looked really good in them and wanted to borrow them and asked me how they look in them and **** like that.... Now a days i cant go out without them cuz my vision is so effed up.... But i only use contacts when i go out to nightclubs or bars, other then that i dont really like using contacts so i wear glasses....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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