"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Glasses / Walking

sambuka

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Hi Everybody,

I'm brand new to this, and so far have found the reading both enjoyable and totally useable. I have yet to do my 50 hello's, I just started myself yesterday - did the first week of reading.

So I went out today to a popular coffee shop and noticed about 5-10 "looks" that I got. But dammit, I just couldn't say, "Hello!" I felt like a Prince (or at least convinced myself of that), but I just couldn't say anything. What's worse is that the eye contact was good. Occasionally girls were checking me out. This one way-too-hot girl didn't even look in my direction though. Damn, she was a total 10.

Anyway, I was wondering if people are having better success with this walking or sitting down at a cafe. I like the cafe, because in this Canadian city (Playboy named home of some of the hottest girls in the world), so many of them flock to this one particular spot.

Oh, I should say that I was reading a book if that matters.

Also, I just got prescribed glasses (fortunetly I've been told that I look totally hot with them). But it seems that this would limit my chances with eye contact. Can anybody react to this?

Thanks everybody. Seriously love this site.

SAMBUKA
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mjfan12

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I have glasses too, but I only wear them in the house, or if I look like crap and I dont care.

Other than that I wear contacts. Get them, you'll look much better.
 

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It depends, post a picture. If you are handsome, and muscular - wearing glasses will not affect you , infact it will ENHANCE your appearance and attract more girls cause glasses = universal sign of smartness.

But if you're not good looking, not muscular - this can hurt you. and it'll become a universal sign of geekiness.
 

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Originally posted by darthsidious
It depends, post a picture. If you are handsome, and muscular - wearing glasses will not affect you , infact it will ENHANCE your appearance and attract more girls cause glasses = universal sign of smartness.

But if you're not good looking, not muscular - this can hurt you. and it'll become a universal sign of geekiness.
very true =)

Also dont wear glases to nightclubs and such but if u need them during daytime and so, do wear them....
I remember when i got glasses all the girls came up to me and said that i looked really good in them and wanted to borrow them and asked me how they look in them and **** like that.... Now a days i cant go out without them cuz my vision is so effed up.... But i only use contacts when i go out to nightclubs or bars, other then that i dont really like using contacts so i wear glasses....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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