"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Glasses / Walking

sambuka

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Hi Everybody,

I'm brand new to this, and so far have found the reading both enjoyable and totally useable. I have yet to do my 50 hello's, I just started myself yesterday - did the first week of reading.

So I went out today to a popular coffee shop and noticed about 5-10 "looks" that I got. But dammit, I just couldn't say, "Hello!" I felt like a Prince (or at least convinced myself of that), but I just couldn't say anything. What's worse is that the eye contact was good. Occasionally girls were checking me out. This one way-too-hot girl didn't even look in my direction though. Damn, she was a total 10.

Anyway, I was wondering if people are having better success with this walking or sitting down at a cafe. I like the cafe, because in this Canadian city (Playboy named home of some of the hottest girls in the world), so many of them flock to this one particular spot.

Oh, I should say that I was reading a book if that matters.

Also, I just got prescribed glasses (fortunetly I've been told that I look totally hot with them). But it seems that this would limit my chances with eye contact. Can anybody react to this?

Thanks everybody. Seriously love this site.

SAMBUKA
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mjfan12

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I have glasses too, but I only wear them in the house, or if I look like crap and I dont care.

Other than that I wear contacts. Get them, you'll look much better.
 

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It depends, post a picture. If you are handsome, and muscular - wearing glasses will not affect you , infact it will ENHANCE your appearance and attract more girls cause glasses = universal sign of smartness.

But if you're not good looking, not muscular - this can hurt you. and it'll become a universal sign of geekiness.
 

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Originally posted by darthsidious
It depends, post a picture. If you are handsome, and muscular - wearing glasses will not affect you , infact it will ENHANCE your appearance and attract more girls cause glasses = universal sign of smartness.

But if you're not good looking, not muscular - this can hurt you. and it'll become a universal sign of geekiness.
very true =)

Also dont wear glases to nightclubs and such but if u need them during daytime and so, do wear them....
I remember when i got glasses all the girls came up to me and said that i looked really good in them and wanted to borrow them and asked me how they look in them and **** like that.... Now a days i cant go out without them cuz my vision is so effed up.... But i only use contacts when i go out to nightclubs or bars, other then that i dont really like using contacts so i wear glasses....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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