"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Glasses / Walking

sambuka

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Hi Everybody,

I'm brand new to this, and so far have found the reading both enjoyable and totally useable. I have yet to do my 50 hello's, I just started myself yesterday - did the first week of reading.

So I went out today to a popular coffee shop and noticed about 5-10 "looks" that I got. But dammit, I just couldn't say, "Hello!" I felt like a Prince (or at least convinced myself of that), but I just couldn't say anything. What's worse is that the eye contact was good. Occasionally girls were checking me out. This one way-too-hot girl didn't even look in my direction though. Damn, she was a total 10.

Anyway, I was wondering if people are having better success with this walking or sitting down at a cafe. I like the cafe, because in this Canadian city (Playboy named home of some of the hottest girls in the world), so many of them flock to this one particular spot.

Oh, I should say that I was reading a book if that matters.

Also, I just got prescribed glasses (fortunetly I've been told that I look totally hot with them). But it seems that this would limit my chances with eye contact. Can anybody react to this?

Thanks everybody. Seriously love this site.

SAMBUKA
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mjfan12

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I have glasses too, but I only wear them in the house, or if I look like crap and I dont care.

Other than that I wear contacts. Get them, you'll look much better.
 

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It depends, post a picture. If you are handsome, and muscular - wearing glasses will not affect you , infact it will ENHANCE your appearance and attract more girls cause glasses = universal sign of smartness.

But if you're not good looking, not muscular - this can hurt you. and it'll become a universal sign of geekiness.
 

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Originally posted by darthsidious
It depends, post a picture. If you are handsome, and muscular - wearing glasses will not affect you , infact it will ENHANCE your appearance and attract more girls cause glasses = universal sign of smartness.

But if you're not good looking, not muscular - this can hurt you. and it'll become a universal sign of geekiness.
very true =)

Also dont wear glases to nightclubs and such but if u need them during daytime and so, do wear them....
I remember when i got glasses all the girls came up to me and said that i looked really good in them and wanted to borrow them and asked me how they look in them and **** like that.... Now a days i cant go out without them cuz my vision is so effed up.... But i only use contacts when i go out to nightclubs or bars, other then that i dont really like using contacts so i wear glasses....
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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