"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Glamorising Craziness?

Tyrion

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Just came across this song by Doja Cat.
“Walk On By” is an old song that has been covered many times and I find this one quite catchy, but after watching the video it comes across to me that Doja Cat is glamorising craziness in women and making it look cool for a woman to be crazy.

Maybe I’m just getting old!

 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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obelisk

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Doja Cat is the new it-girl for degeneracy.

https://vigilantcitizen.com/ (graphic warning)
Doja Cat's full story is paywalled but the imagery entirely fits with all this satanic bs we see in Holywood, fashion and music. The Overton Window continues to push downward. Whether you believe theories of what they're suggesting is up to you. But it's entirely in theme.
 

The Duke

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They can justify and glamorize all they want. But it's pointless if no man is buying it. Just like when they try and make you think being fat is ok and you should accept. You have a choice.

Same goes for accepting women who have lost their looks to age.

No thanks. I'd rather go with out than deal with day old donuts and yesterday's garbage.
 

FlirtLife

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They can justify and glamorize all they want. But it's pointless if no man is buying it. Just like when they try and make you think being fat is ok and you should accept.
Given that mix of humor and hypocrisy, I doubt I could restrain myself :
If Lizzo is so beautiful, how come chicks get mad when you tell them “you look like Lizzo?”
(from reddit "OnlineDating", amoung other websites)
 

Bokanovsky

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Glamorizing evil is nothing new. Back in the day, devil worshipers were burned at the stake. These days, they make rap videos.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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