"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Glamorising Craziness?

Tyrion

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Just came across this song by Doja Cat.
“Walk On By” is an old song that has been covered many times and I find this one quite catchy, but after watching the video it comes across to me that Doja Cat is glamorising craziness in women and making it look cool for a woman to be crazy.

Maybe I’m just getting old!

 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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obelisk

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Doja Cat is the new it-girl for degeneracy.

https://vigilantcitizen.com/ (graphic warning)
Doja Cat's full story is paywalled but the imagery entirely fits with all this satanic bs we see in Holywood, fashion and music. The Overton Window continues to push downward. Whether you believe theories of what they're suggesting is up to you. But it's entirely in theme.
 

The Duke

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They can justify and glamorize all they want. But it's pointless if no man is buying it. Just like when they try and make you think being fat is ok and you should accept. You have a choice.

Same goes for accepting women who have lost their looks to age.

No thanks. I'd rather go with out than deal with day old donuts and yesterday's garbage.
 

FlirtLife

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They can justify and glamorize all they want. But it's pointless if no man is buying it. Just like when they try and make you think being fat is ok and you should accept.
Given that mix of humor and hypocrisy, I doubt I could restrain myself :
If Lizzo is so beautiful, how come chicks get mad when you tell them “you look like Lizzo?”
(from reddit "OnlineDating", amoung other websites)
 

Bokanovsky

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Glamorizing evil is nothing new. Back in the day, devil worshipers were burned at the stake. These days, they make rap videos.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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