"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Glamorising Craziness?

Tyrion

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Just came across this song by Doja Cat.
“Walk On By” is an old song that has been covered many times and I find this one quite catchy, but after watching the video it comes across to me that Doja Cat is glamorising craziness in women and making it look cool for a woman to be crazy.

Maybe I’m just getting old!

 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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obelisk

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Doja Cat is the new it-girl for degeneracy.

https://vigilantcitizen.com/ (graphic warning)
Doja Cat's full story is paywalled but the imagery entirely fits with all this satanic bs we see in Holywood, fashion and music. The Overton Window continues to push downward. Whether you believe theories of what they're suggesting is up to you. But it's entirely in theme.
 

The Duke

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They can justify and glamorize all they want. But it's pointless if no man is buying it. Just like when they try and make you think being fat is ok and you should accept. You have a choice.

Same goes for accepting women who have lost their looks to age.

No thanks. I'd rather go with out than deal with day old donuts and yesterday's garbage.
 

FlirtLife

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They can justify and glamorize all they want. But it's pointless if no man is buying it. Just like when they try and make you think being fat is ok and you should accept.
Given that mix of humor and hypocrisy, I doubt I could restrain myself :
If Lizzo is so beautiful, how come chicks get mad when you tell them “you look like Lizzo?”
(from reddit "OnlineDating", amoung other websites)
 

Bokanovsky

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Glamorizing evil is nothing new. Back in the day, devil worshipers were burned at the stake. These days, they make rap videos.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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