"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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giving second chance..

djneo

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.. I like to ask every DJs' opinion about this situation-> you found out the your girlfriend slept with her X, but she told you that she didn't like it. Will you forgive this girl or move on and dump her immediately?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I personally won't tolerate cheating and would dump her. plus the distrust that comes with it ruins everything

on the otherhand, her excuse was she didn't like it? so if the dude actually knew how to fvck, it would've been ok?
 
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Are you on Crack to pose such a question??

Say "No" to hos!!!
 

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Erm, move on and dump her immediately...dude.

lol, "she didn't like it". I wonder if she decided that before or after f*cking him...or during :crackup:

shaun
 

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"honey, i didnt cheat on u, its not cheating if i didnt enjoy it!" lol!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what the heck are you smoking, fermented monkey sh!t??

'I didn't like it' lol..:crackup: (and here I pay money for stand up comedy..silly me):rolleyes:
 

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Just tell her, "It's over, we're through. Now I'm going to go f*ck 20 women. Don't worry, I promise not to like it."
 

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Ask her if you can go out, find someone and if you like having sex with them more than her you can dump her, or if you don't, you can come back and kep going with her.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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So, your girlfriend cheats on you. Gives you a bullsh!t excuse that she didn't like it. I am trying not to laugh right now.... But, I am.

DUMP HER NOW!!!!!!!!!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ducaro said:
what the heck are you smoking, fermented monkey sh!t??

'I didn't like it' lol..:crackup: (and here I pay money for stand up comedy..silly me):rolleyes:
lol seriousy... but some people deserve second chances though really.

actually... no wait that sh1t was pretty fvcked up!!
 

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Last Man Standing said:
Are you on Crack to pose such a question??

Say "No" to hos!!!
QFT.

You have to be high or have a severe lack of options to even think of giving a cheater a second chance.
 

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This has to be a joke.

I do not date liars. No man should.

Drop her.
 

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djneo said:
.. I like to ask every DJs' opinion about this situation-> you found out the your girlfriend slept with her X, but she told you that she didn't like it. Will you forgive this girl or move on and dump her immediately?
that s a reasonable excuse! :up:

I wonder what she s gonna come up with next time... "i got gang banged but i didn't enjoy it cuz it hurt!"
 

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WHy dont' you demand an open relationship...that way you can still pump her as well as other chics! This will kill the exclusivity in the relationship, yet also keep her around as a FB.

Don't dump a perfectly good viable Pvssy!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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