I think I give off an aggressive vibe to women whether I know them or not. I'm pretty big too and weigh 200 pounds, so that doesn't help with women being comfortable around me. I do get girls and have a girlfriend(we're not exclusive), but my aggressive tendencies come out. Even when I was driving my girlfriend around she said "Where are we going? It looks like you're taking me in the middle of nowhere to kill me" lol. I'm not needy and I feel confident with women, though I don't know how I come off so aggressive and scary to others. I figured an aggressive vibe was great for sexual attraction. So what could I be doing to give off an aggressive/scary/possibly nontrustworthy vibe?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Giving off an aggressive/scary vibe to women?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
PapiChulo
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Maybe you are too tense or serious. Body language may be an issue. I am big too, but have baby face, people still dont ride with me in the elevators. Some say I have a heavy gaze that can creep people out. All these subtle things that people pick up on can have a huge effect.....
Your not responsible for someones irrational fears. Im big too, 6'2 260lbs. I look like a linebacker and I also have a beard im growing .. Oh yeah and im dark.. But not changimg any of that because someone is intimidated. The way I see it if someone fears you they are beneath you
Rather look big and intimidating than look like a *****
Rather look big and intimidating than look like a *****
I'm 6'5" 230 and used to be a very nervous person, with lots of fidgeting. You need to detoxify as the nervous energy is caused by artificial colors and flavors like MSG that are ubiquitous in fast food. Trust me on this. You'll feel serene after a fast. Girls are indirectly observing this as you are emitting the same crap you eat with your vibes.
But your doctor will says it's Restless Leg Syndrome and prescribe meds, side effects which include suicidal thoughts...
But your doctor will says it's Restless Leg Syndrome and prescribe meds, side effects which include suicidal thoughts...
Are you a fan of Deicide? Do you look at all like Glen Benton? Because if you do that would probably throw somebody off.
You probably just give off a weird vibe and are probably kind of a weird dude. Nothing wrong with that, quite the contrary in my opinion actually, especially if you have a girlfriend and are happy with her. Being normal would probably be even worse since it would be an act.
You are probably an individual and walk your own path. Be proud of it, it's not always easy. But it's usually satisfying. Get used to misunderstandings.
You probably just give off a weird vibe and are probably kind of a weird dude. Nothing wrong with that, quite the contrary in my opinion actually, especially if you have a girlfriend and are happy with her. Being normal would probably be even worse since it would be an act.
You are probably an individual and walk your own path. Be proud of it, it's not always easy. But it's usually satisfying. Get used to misunderstandings.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I'm built like Glen, but I don't have long hair. Yes, I never really fit in with the more normal/country type people here, but I can still attract those types of women.FairShake said:
Me and my girlfriend have fights every week but also do regular sex. I'm not completely satisfied by her and know I can do better, but I like hanging out with her, though we have very little in common. But somehow it works.
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Be you.
IMO, women who do this are themselves non-confident.
IMO, women who do this are themselves non-confident.