last night, i was sarging this girl and she asked for my age. i threw c/f responses at her and did not reveal my age. i've done this before many times w/ other girls, and usually the girls would stop asking after the third try or so. but last night this girl would not stop. she continued to press for my age and would not quit. even when i ignored her pressing and attempted to change the topic. now if i did reveal my age, i felt i'd be in a weak position because i didn't stand my ground. how far do you guys take the c/f? if she asks a specific question about you, do you later truthfully answer her question after first throwing some c/f responses?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
giving c/f responses. how far do you take it?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Uncomfortable with your age?
It's her who is uncomfortable with your age, not you. You shouldn't be. Age truly is nothing but a number.
It's her who is uncomfortable with your age, not you. You shouldn't be. Age truly is nothing but a number.
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Don Juan
If she totally insists on knowing your age you can pull out the:Originally posted by [o_0]
well whats wrong with telling the age?
You: "Ok, if you get to know my age, what do I get?"
Her: "What do you want?"
You: "You. Duh."
Her: "Hey! No really, what do you want."
You: "Did I stutter?"
Her: "Ok, but seriously."
You: "Oh, I'm very serious about sex."
Her: "What else do you want?"
You: "You and another girl? Mostly you though. The other girl will have to wait."
You got to her, she was slobbering all over you, but you failed to take that energy and turn it sexual.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Because that's boring.Or how bout just telling her your age and being comfortable with who you are, instead of using pre-planned lines from an internet poster?
Besides, you can also be comfortable with who you are without telling your age, instead of using the same PRE-PLANNED line you use every time someone asks you that question.
Just say: Old enough (to answer a question like that)
or just give her an age a lot higher or a lot lower.
It's not about YOU being uncomfortable with your age. You are ****ed up if you aren't. It's her who will be insecure about your age. Age is a barrier that people put ... a way to "guess" how people are. To cathegorize.Originally posted by green69
Or how bout just telling her your age and being comfortable with who you are, instead of using pre-planned lines from an internet poster?
Just because I'm comfortable with my body doesn't mean I'm going to be naked all around town man.