"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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giving c/f responses. how far do you take it?

john_1234

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last night, i was sarging this girl and she asked for my age. i threw c/f responses at her and did not reveal my age. i've done this before many times w/ other girls, and usually the girls would stop asking after the third try or so. but last night this girl would not stop. she continued to press for my age and would not quit. even when i ignored her pressing and attempted to change the topic. now if i did reveal my age, i felt i'd be in a weak position because i didn't stand my ground. how far do you guys take the c/f? if she asks a specific question about you, do you later truthfully answer her question after first throwing some c/f responses?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SamePendo

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Uncomfortable with your age?

It's her who is uncomfortable with your age, not you. You shouldn't be. Age truly is nothing but a number.
 

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if a girl says:How old are you?
you say:How much do you weigh(smile)
 

[o_0]

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well whats wrong with telling the age?
 

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Originally posted by [o_0]
well whats wrong with telling the age?
If she totally insists on knowing your age you can pull out the:

You: "Ok, if you get to know my age, what do I get?"
Her: "What do you want?"
You: "You. Duh."
Her: "Hey! No really, what do you want."
You: "Did I stutter?"
Her: "Ok, but seriously."
You: "Oh, I'm very serious about sex."
Her: "What else do you want?"
You: "You and another girl? Mostly you though. The other girl will have to wait."

You got to her, she was slobbering all over you, but you failed to take that energy and turn it sexual.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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green69

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Or how bout just telling her your age and being comfortable with who you are, instead of using pre-planned lines from an internet poster?
 

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Or how bout just telling her your age and being comfortable with who you are, instead of using pre-planned lines from an internet poster?
Because that's boring.

Besides, you can also be comfortable with who you are without telling your age, instead of using the same PRE-PLANNED line you use every time someone asks you that question.

Just say: Old enough (to answer a question like that)
or just give her an age a lot higher or a lot lower.
 

SamePendo

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Originally posted by green69
Or how bout just telling her your age and being comfortable with who you are, instead of using pre-planned lines from an internet poster?
It's not about YOU being uncomfortable with your age. You are ****ed up if you aren't. It's her who will be insecure about your age. Age is a barrier that people put ... a way to "guess" how people are. To cathegorize.

Just because I'm comfortable with my body doesn't mean I'm going to be naked all around town man.
 
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