last night, i was sarging this girl and she asked for my age. i threw c/f responses at her and did not reveal my age. i've done this before many times w/ other girls, and usually the girls would stop asking after the third try or so. but last night this girl would not stop. she continued to press for my age and would not quit. even when i ignored her pressing and attempted to change the topic. now if i did reveal my age, i felt i'd be in a weak position because i didn't stand my ground. how far do you guys take the c/f? if she asks a specific question about you, do you later truthfully answer her question after first throwing some c/f responses?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
giving c/f responses. how far do you take it?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Uncomfortable with your age?
It's her who is uncomfortable with your age, not you. You shouldn't be. Age truly is nothing but a number.
It's her who is uncomfortable with your age, not you. You shouldn't be. Age truly is nothing but a number.
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If she totally insists on knowing your age you can pull out the:Originally posted by [o_0]
well whats wrong with telling the age?
You: "Ok, if you get to know my age, what do I get?"
Her: "What do you want?"
You: "You. Duh."
Her: "Hey! No really, what do you want."
You: "Did I stutter?"
Her: "Ok, but seriously."
You: "Oh, I'm very serious about sex."
Her: "What else do you want?"
You: "You and another girl? Mostly you though. The other girl will have to wait."
You got to her, she was slobbering all over you, but you failed to take that energy and turn it sexual.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Because that's boring.Or how bout just telling her your age and being comfortable with who you are, instead of using pre-planned lines from an internet poster?
Besides, you can also be comfortable with who you are without telling your age, instead of using the same PRE-PLANNED line you use every time someone asks you that question.
Just say: Old enough (to answer a question like that)
or just give her an age a lot higher or a lot lower.
It's not about YOU being uncomfortable with your age. You are ****ed up if you aren't. It's her who will be insecure about your age. Age is a barrier that people put ... a way to "guess" how people are. To cathegorize.Originally posted by green69
Or how bout just telling her your age and being comfortable with who you are, instead of using pre-planned lines from an internet poster?
Just because I'm comfortable with my body doesn't mean I'm going to be naked all around town man.