"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"give to to giver, and take from the taker"

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just read this little tip on sosuave.com:
http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip247.htm

in summary, it talks about being kind and generous and kind to the type of girls who are giving, and being the ****y, negging type to the girls who are used to guys fawning over them and doing nice things for them.

my question is, have any of you guys met any HB8s and up who are givers? I haven't and i don't think they exist. By their sheer nature of being beautiful, AFCs have always given to them, and made them used to "taking".

let me know what you experienced DJs think
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Givers are turned off by givers as well. Its better to be somewhat of a taker.
 
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I think you can "train" your woman! If you make her understand that by giving you she earns some things, she WILL give you... No matter what HB she is... You say there is no HB8+ who are givers? WTF, my lady for now is a HB 8 and when I want to light a ciggarete she gets off the bed to bring me the ashtray and the lighter! :p This is small but that's what we are most of the time! I once told her that by doing those things she looks more of a woman to me, cause a woman should care about making their man happy, and she liked it! She wanted to please me even more, prove me that she is a woman the way I think a woman should be! You can take and give to everyone just by knowing how to "use" them!
 
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