"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"give to to giver, and take from the taker"

ne0phyte

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just read this little tip on sosuave.com:
http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip247.htm

in summary, it talks about being kind and generous and kind to the type of girls who are giving, and being the ****y, negging type to the girls who are used to guys fawning over them and doing nice things for them.

my question is, have any of you guys met any HB8s and up who are givers? I haven't and i don't think they exist. By their sheer nature of being beautiful, AFCs have always given to them, and made them used to "taking".

let me know what you experienced DJs think
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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horaholic

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Givers are turned off by givers as well. Its better to be somewhat of a taker.
 

DonJuanit0

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I think you can "train" your woman! If you make her understand that by giving you she earns some things, she WILL give you... No matter what HB she is... You say there is no HB8+ who are givers? WTF, my lady for now is a HB 8 and when I want to light a ciggarete she gets off the bed to bring me the ashtray and the lighter! :p This is small but that's what we are most of the time! I once told her that by doing those things she looks more of a woman to me, cause a woman should care about making their man happy, and she liked it! She wanted to please me even more, prove me that she is a woman the way I think a woman should be! You can take and give to everyone just by knowing how to "use" them!
 
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