"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Give them fun, they will give you secks.

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So my whole M.O is simplifying the game for people.
So next time you go on a date I want you guys to focus strIctly on fun.
They literaly just want to have an adventure with you. No need for a bunch of small talk,
every guy asks the same questions its all boring to them.
What will differentiate you is being fun as fux.

I mean grab her by the arm, take her to the club and dance like no one is watching,
Tell her come over and out the blue take her sky diving
Take her to an amusement park
Anything but ask her a million dumbass questions.

She will associate you with fun and she will always be down to hang out.
Thats all I got
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yep. And give her fun during sex, too. Then she'll always come back. :)
 
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You still have to get the date and you still have to get sex. This is cool advice, but only useful if you get the date in the first place.
 
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nismo-4 said:
You still have to get the date and you still have to get sex. This is cool advice, but only useful if you get the date in the first place.
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Captain obvious saves the day..:D
 
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cola said:
Captain obvious saves the day..:D
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Why should I take female relationship advice from a guy who doesn't even know how to handle male ones?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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He didn't give me advice, he stated something clearly obvious, if you read my post I think it even says "on your next date" .. so what I got to go with his flow because hes a mod or has a million green dots by his name?
And I wasnt even being disrespectful just saying in jest.
Man Gtfoh, tf are you his forum bouncer or something?
 
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He didn't give me advice, he stated something clearly obvious, if you read my post I think it even says "on your next date" .. so what I got to go with his flow because hes a mod or has a million green dots by his name?
And I wasnt even being disrespectful just saying in jest.
Man Gtfoh, tf are you his forum bouncer or something?
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Lol. Again I ask - why should I take female relationship advice from a guy who doesn't even know how to handle male ones?
 
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Lol. Again I ask - why should I take female relationship advice from a guy who doesn't even know how to handle male ones?
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Because good advice is good advice, regardless how you feel about the givers dispositions, thats why.
And anyone who gets chicks will tell you, it's good advice son.
 
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easy with the drama ladies...

to be fair, nismo is being obvious on that one, and 'give them fun' is equally obvious

maybe nismo was doing it on purpose to point out ur obviousness? thatd be epic
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Because good advice is good advice, regardless how you feel about the givers dispositions, thats why.
And anyone who gets chicks will tell you, it's good advice son.
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Nothing really groundbreaking though, is it?
 
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I apologize I mean no disrespect to anyone. Most everyone who replied has been on this forum for years, so yeah its obvious advice to you maybe.
I got annoyed because I was more less teasing Nismo and I felt like the other guy came from no where and was trying to have a d1ck measuring contest with me.
 
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Well if that's whatit was, i aced it. Just close the thread, the f~ckery took away from the intended message
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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better yet to just be a fun guy around everybody having a good time.
 
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