"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Give them fun, they will give you secks.

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So my whole M.O is simplifying the game for people.
So next time you go on a date I want you guys to focus strIctly on fun.
They literaly just want to have an adventure with you. No need for a bunch of small talk,
every guy asks the same questions its all boring to them.
What will differentiate you is being fun as fux.

I mean grab her by the arm, take her to the club and dance like no one is watching,
Tell her come over and out the blue take her sky diving
Take her to an amusement park
Anything but ask her a million dumbass questions.

She will associate you with fun and she will always be down to hang out.
Thats all I got
kthxbye
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yep. And give her fun during sex, too. Then she'll always come back. :)
 

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You still have to get the date and you still have to get sex. This is cool advice, but only useful if you get the date in the first place.
 

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nismo-4 said:
You still have to get the date and you still have to get sex. This is cool advice, but only useful if you get the date in the first place.
Captain obvious saves the day..:D
 

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cola said:
Captain obvious saves the day..:D
Why should I take female relationship advice from a guy who doesn't even know how to handle male ones?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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He didn't give me advice, he stated something clearly obvious, if you read my post I think it even says "on your next date" .. so what I got to go with his flow because hes a mod or has a million green dots by his name?
And I wasnt even being disrespectful just saying in jest.
Man Gtfoh, tf are you his forum bouncer or something?
 

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cola said:
He didn't give me advice, he stated something clearly obvious, if you read my post I think it even says "on your next date" .. so what I got to go with his flow because hes a mod or has a million green dots by his name?
And I wasnt even being disrespectful just saying in jest.
Man Gtfoh, tf are you his forum bouncer or something?
Lol. Again I ask - why should I take female relationship advice from a guy who doesn't even know how to handle male ones?
 

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Lol. Again I ask - why should I take female relationship advice from a guy who doesn't even know how to handle male ones?
Because good advice is good advice, regardless how you feel about the givers dispositions, thats why.
And anyone who gets chicks will tell you, it's good advice son.
 

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easy with the drama ladies...

to be fair, nismo is being obvious on that one, and 'give them fun' is equally obvious

maybe nismo was doing it on purpose to point out ur obviousness? thatd be epic
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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cola said:
Because good advice is good advice, regardless how you feel about the givers dispositions, thats why.
And anyone who gets chicks will tell you, it's good advice son.
Nothing really groundbreaking though, is it?
 

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I apologize I mean no disrespect to anyone. Most everyone who replied has been on this forum for years, so yeah its obvious advice to you maybe.
I got annoyed because I was more less teasing Nismo and I felt like the other guy came from no where and was trying to have a d1ck measuring contest with me.
 

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Well if that's whatit was, i aced it. Just close the thread, the f~ckery took away from the intended message
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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better yet to just be a fun guy around everybody having a good time.
 
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