"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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justis

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related to women or General? I am so ****ing bored...I want to learn some thing NEW.

Here's what I can do:

get a girl...
keep her...
I have increase my testosterone, develope a strong mindset(I am not afraid of DEATH or anything haha specially of women), and I am now sexual...

Every 2 years...something happens to my life. Every month I meet someone I really like. Even though I can probably talk to any one, any girl, anything with confidence. How I feel before and now is probably the same I just have a bigger head. Rarely I struggle the same problem...I have improve my life but theirs always something to improve on so I continue. I have a strong grast/understanding on the "FUNDAMENTALS" but I keep bouncing from girl to girl again and again because of me quickly loosing my interest.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Accension

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Improve your native language.
I'll assume it's English in which case you have no excuse to suck at it.
Language holds with it the medium we comprehend the world through.

I promise it is a very worth while thing and the sooner you bring it up to scratch the better.
Know that there are numerous reasons and I will continue to refine my languages myself.
  • Get some hobbies and at least one daily hobby.
  • Venture the world of self improvement.
You suddenly realise that women aren't important in the slightest.
Once you've experienced a few, you'll understand that your time is better spent elsewhere, so get this little woman obsession out of the way and only come here to help others.

Read books.
Actual books.
Become well versed in modern AND classical literature and learn about the language techniques used throughout.

Learn everything to do with language.
Your perception will elevate to levels far above.
There will be nothing you won't 'get'.

Appreciate art and the art outside it.

Let that be your new precept for the rest of your life.
 

sodbuster

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Get used to being bored. A major problem for the gameboy generation. It happens and you can't spend your whole life running off to find the next new thrill. Have a variety of stuff you like to do and do them all,but stop for a bit when they become boring. Every once in a while, I find something new-cruises were fun-boring after the 4th one. Reading classics/investment books is fun-until the 20th one,etc.
My job is boring after 24 years,but I haven't found a way to make the same money in another field yet. I'm looking,but not jumping off the cliff.
 
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