"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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justis

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related to women or General? I am so ****ing bored...I want to learn some thing NEW.

Here's what I can do:

get a girl...
keep her...
I have increase my testosterone, develope a strong mindset(I am not afraid of DEATH or anything haha specially of women), and I am now sexual...

Every 2 years...something happens to my life. Every month I meet someone I really like. Even though I can probably talk to any one, any girl, anything with confidence. How I feel before and now is probably the same I just have a bigger head. Rarely I struggle the same problem...I have improve my life but theirs always something to improve on so I continue. I have a strong grast/understanding on the "FUNDAMENTALS" but I keep bouncing from girl to girl again and again because of me quickly loosing my interest.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Accension

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Improve your native language.
I'll assume it's English in which case you have no excuse to suck at it.
Language holds with it the medium we comprehend the world through.

I promise it is a very worth while thing and the sooner you bring it up to scratch the better.
Know that there are numerous reasons and I will continue to refine my languages myself.
  • Get some hobbies and at least one daily hobby.
  • Venture the world of self improvement.
You suddenly realise that women aren't important in the slightest.
Once you've experienced a few, you'll understand that your time is better spent elsewhere, so get this little woman obsession out of the way and only come here to help others.

Read books.
Actual books.
Become well versed in modern AND classical literature and learn about the language techniques used throughout.

Learn everything to do with language.
Your perception will elevate to levels far above.
There will be nothing you won't 'get'.

Appreciate art and the art outside it.

Let that be your new precept for the rest of your life.
 

sodbuster

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Get used to being bored. A major problem for the gameboy generation. It happens and you can't spend your whole life running off to find the next new thrill. Have a variety of stuff you like to do and do them all,but stop for a bit when they become boring. Every once in a while, I find something new-cruises were fun-boring after the 4th one. Reading classics/investment books is fun-until the 20th one,etc.
My job is boring after 24 years,but I haven't found a way to make the same money in another field yet. I'm looking,but not jumping off the cliff.
 
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