"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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justis

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related to women or General? I am so ****ing bored...I want to learn some thing NEW.

Here's what I can do:

get a girl...
keep her...
I have increase my testosterone, develope a strong mindset(I am not afraid of DEATH or anything haha specially of women), and I am now sexual...

Every 2 years...something happens to my life. Every month I meet someone I really like. Even though I can probably talk to any one, any girl, anything with confidence. How I feel before and now is probably the same I just have a bigger head. Rarely I struggle the same problem...I have improve my life but theirs always something to improve on so I continue. I have a strong grast/understanding on the "FUNDAMENTALS" but I keep bouncing from girl to girl again and again because of me quickly loosing my interest.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Accension

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Improve your native language.
I'll assume it's English in which case you have no excuse to suck at it.
Language holds with it the medium we comprehend the world through.

I promise it is a very worth while thing and the sooner you bring it up to scratch the better.
Know that there are numerous reasons and I will continue to refine my languages myself.
  • Get some hobbies and at least one daily hobby.
  • Venture the world of self improvement.
You suddenly realise that women aren't important in the slightest.
Once you've experienced a few, you'll understand that your time is better spent elsewhere, so get this little woman obsession out of the way and only come here to help others.

Read books.
Actual books.
Become well versed in modern AND classical literature and learn about the language techniques used throughout.

Learn everything to do with language.
Your perception will elevate to levels far above.
There will be nothing you won't 'get'.

Appreciate art and the art outside it.

Let that be your new precept for the rest of your life.
 

sodbuster

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Get used to being bored. A major problem for the gameboy generation. It happens and you can't spend your whole life running off to find the next new thrill. Have a variety of stuff you like to do and do them all,but stop for a bit when they become boring. Every once in a while, I find something new-cruises were fun-boring after the 4th one. Reading classics/investment books is fun-until the 20th one,etc.
My job is boring after 24 years,but I haven't found a way to make the same money in another field yet. I'm looking,but not jumping off the cliff.
 
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