"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Give me 1 reason.... lol

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So today i was at the mall with my cousin shopping around for some t-shirts and such and there was this cute short girl working that i had noticed...so i decided to go start some convo. I asked her about some plaid cargo shorts and what she thought about them...after a little chat and me going to put them back and such she came and asked me if i had found anything.....we chat some more....and then the convo goes like this....

Girl - So your not gonna get anything?

SicX - How about i get your number?

Girl - What do you want my number for?

SicX - What do people use numbers for? ... To call you.

Girl - Umm i dunno i dont know you...Give me 1 reason why i should give it to you. (looking shy)

SicX - Its very simple, so i can call you and we can hang out sometime.

Girl - Umm I dont know.

SicX - Hey dont worry about it. (Walk away)


----- Ok so i know i worded some stuff wrong that could have been better. I also didnt build enough rapport before i asked for the number but that line she gave about "So are you gonna get anything" ... my mind just spurted out " how about i get your number" without thinking lol.

What do you think is a good response if she says give me 1 reason why i should give you my number?

I think a good response could have been "I cant think a reason why you wouldn't". That could have worked =P lol
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sicx said:
Haha thats perfect man.
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Nonetheless, I think you did a good job man. Keep it up :up:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJDamage said:
"Because we both know you want too"
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LOL NICE! DJ. i like that.
 
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In2theGame said:
LOL NICE! DJ. i like that.
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I like that too. It sets the frame such that rejecting your offer is HER loss, not yours.
 
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