"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Give me 1 reason.... lol

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So today i was at the mall with my cousin shopping around for some t-shirts and such and there was this cute short girl working that i had noticed...so i decided to go start some convo. I asked her about some plaid cargo shorts and what she thought about them...after a little chat and me going to put them back and such she came and asked me if i had found anything.....we chat some more....and then the convo goes like this....

Girl - So your not gonna get anything?

SicX - How about i get your number?

Girl - What do you want my number for?

SicX - What do people use numbers for? ... To call you.

Girl - Umm i dunno i dont know you...Give me 1 reason why i should give it to you. (looking shy)

SicX - Its very simple, so i can call you and we can hang out sometime.

Girl - Umm I dont know.

SicX - Hey dont worry about it. (Walk away)


----- Ok so i know i worded some stuff wrong that could have been better. I also didnt build enough rapport before i asked for the number but that line she gave about "So are you gonna get anything" ... my mind just spurted out " how about i get your number" without thinking lol.

What do you think is a good response if she says give me 1 reason why i should give you my number?

I think a good response could have been "I cant think a reason why you wouldn't". That could have worked =P lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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drtk

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Sicx said:
Haha thats perfect man.
Nonetheless, I think you did a good job man. Keep it up :up:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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In2theGame

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DJDamage said:
"Because we both know you want too"
LOL NICE! DJ. i like that.
 

daygameguy

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In2theGame said:
LOL NICE! DJ. i like that.
I like that too. It sets the frame such that rejecting your offer is HER loss, not yours.
 
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