"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Give me 1 reason.... lol

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So today i was at the mall with my cousin shopping around for some t-shirts and such and there was this cute short girl working that i had noticed...so i decided to go start some convo. I asked her about some plaid cargo shorts and what she thought about them...after a little chat and me going to put them back and such she came and asked me if i had found anything.....we chat some more....and then the convo goes like this....

Girl - So your not gonna get anything?

SicX - How about i get your number?

Girl - What do you want my number for?

SicX - What do people use numbers for? ... To call you.

Girl - Umm i dunno i dont know you...Give me 1 reason why i should give it to you. (looking shy)

SicX - Its very simple, so i can call you and we can hang out sometime.

Girl - Umm I dont know.

SicX - Hey dont worry about it. (Walk away)


----- Ok so i know i worded some stuff wrong that could have been better. I also didnt build enough rapport before i asked for the number but that line she gave about "So are you gonna get anything" ... my mind just spurted out " how about i get your number" without thinking lol.

What do you think is a good response if she says give me 1 reason why i should give you my number?

I think a good response could have been "I cant think a reason why you wouldn't". That could have worked =P lol
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sicx said:
Haha thats perfect man.
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Nonetheless, I think you did a good job man. Keep it up :up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DJDamage said:
"Because we both know you want too"
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LOL NICE! DJ. i like that.
 
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In2theGame said:
LOL NICE! DJ. i like that.
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I like that too. It sets the frame such that rejecting your offer is HER loss, not yours.
 
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