"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Give me 1 reason.... lol

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So today i was at the mall with my cousin shopping around for some t-shirts and such and there was this cute short girl working that i had noticed...so i decided to go start some convo. I asked her about some plaid cargo shorts and what she thought about them...after a little chat and me going to put them back and such she came and asked me if i had found anything.....we chat some more....and then the convo goes like this....

Girl - So your not gonna get anything?

SicX - How about i get your number?

Girl - What do you want my number for?

SicX - What do people use numbers for? ... To call you.

Girl - Umm i dunno i dont know you...Give me 1 reason why i should give it to you. (looking shy)

SicX - Its very simple, so i can call you and we can hang out sometime.

Girl - Umm I dont know.

SicX - Hey dont worry about it. (Walk away)


----- Ok so i know i worded some stuff wrong that could have been better. I also didnt build enough rapport before i asked for the number but that line she gave about "So are you gonna get anything" ... my mind just spurted out " how about i get your number" without thinking lol.

What do you think is a good response if she says give me 1 reason why i should give you my number?

I think a good response could have been "I cant think a reason why you wouldn't". That could have worked =P lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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drtk

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Sicx said:
Haha thats perfect man.
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Nonetheless, I think you did a good job man. Keep it up :up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJDamage said:
"Because we both know you want too"
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LOL NICE! DJ. i like that.
 
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In2theGame said:
LOL NICE! DJ. i like that.
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I like that too. It sets the frame such that rejecting your offer is HER loss, not yours.
 
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