"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So i met this girl and was her bf for a month.Everything was great but her ex bf was trying to come back and be with her.He would call and call and she would shut her phone off.Eventually she told me that she thinks she still has feelings for him.She then ended it with me "its been hard but my ex came back into town and i really cant talk or see you anymore.....im sorry".

Its been 3 weeks since then.I went from being pissed to not caring then to now.I want her back.......i havent contacted her at all.Should i still continue to give it up or try once more?.I know it may be afcish or whatever but im very new to this and she is my first gf
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She tested you and you failed that test. Now you should show some self-respect and just move on to someone who isn't going to treat you like ****.
 
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step up man.. you've been a member since 2003.. new to this?

I would drop it and not act needy.But if you really want to contact her.. don't be serious at all.. just send a txt and be like 'hey hows your day going'.. if shes interested, she'll show it.. but ehh it sounds to me like shes getting a bit controlled by the ex and can't grip away from him. so anyone else in her life isn't as important..
 
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I only say this cuz she was my first girlfriend.I do read things on this site but im not on here 24/7
 
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WHAT ARE YOU THINKING? She had her chance, she blew it. SHE doesn't get another chance. {on the flip side,she wanted the other guy more-you aren't getting any from her}{don't beg, it makes you look pathetic}.

Now if you want her back, strut by her with a 10 on your arm-she'll want you back[but with a 10, you won't want her]
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SharinganUser said:
She tested you and you failed that test. Now you should show some self-respect and just move on to someone who isn't going to treat you like ****.
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SharinganUser,you said that you think this was a test from her. Usually,I'm pretty good at spotting tests,but I can't seem to see it in this one. Could you explain what the test was here? And why she tested him,and what he should have done to pass the test?

As for you Intraining,I'd just forget about her. If you go back trying to get with her,(imo) you'd just inflate her ego. Her being able to go back and forth between two guys whenever she feels like it eventually will just make her look down on both you and the other guy.
 
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