Im in college. Theres this weird thing. I know this one guy who is really quiet and shy. He gets a girlfriend and now hes all opinionated and slowly turning douchebaggish. Another guy is super fkn womenly. He used to follow this chick around school. He also ended up getting a girlfriend. So 2 super AFCs getting chicks. EXPLAIN SOSUAVE, whats going on?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
girly men getting women
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Kenny Powers
Senior Don Juan
Not all girls are the same and some do like guys like this. However, these metro guys will be stepped on for the whole relationship and will eventually just push their girls to real men like us.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
SandHawk
Master Don Juan
Yea man, just because we consider ourself real men and these guys to be AFCs doesn't matter they won't get laid or never get a girlfriend. There seems to be a common misbelieve that the DJ way is the only way to meet women.
No, AFCs meet girls too and eventually get laid. However, the DJ lifestyle doesn't focus on that one girl that's perfect for you [doesn't exist], but on dipping your manhood into as many girls as you can. And for that, you need game.
No, AFCs meet girls too and eventually get laid. However, the DJ lifestyle doesn't focus on that one girl that's perfect for you [doesn't exist], but on dipping your manhood into as many girls as you can. And for that, you need game.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Julius_Seizeher
Master Don Juan
Personally, I think the feminine men thing is yet another anti-male theme championed by our man-hating liberal media and hollywood. Turn on your tv, and the archetype of the "traditional" man is depicted as a drunk who beats up his wife.
What if they deserve it? Yet another reason for me to not get married.
But regardless, I know for damn sure that is NOT the way for me, and I should hope these effeminate men discover the travesty of their existence before they are made into cuckolds by these equally lost women.
What if they deserve it? Yet another reason for me to not get married.
But regardless, I know for damn sure that is NOT the way for me, and I should hope these effeminate men discover the travesty of their existence before they are made into cuckolds by these equally lost women.
Well there are scientific researches showing that women on the pill are more attracted to feminine men, so those men are more "in" recently. And then there are of course the dandies who have been around for centuries.
Half of the guys who come to sites like this can get a GF but are often miserable and not getting what they want out of the relationship. Not all who come here can't get laid.
Half of the guys who come to sites like this can get a GF but are often miserable and not getting what they want out of the relationship. Not all who come here can't get laid.
Young women go after what they see on TV. The cool guys with their trendy haircuts a clothing etc. Once these young girls discover REAL MEN they feel more feminine and then know what they want. Its part of growing up.
+1Julius_Seizeher said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Plinco
Master Don Juan
I have observed this too.
It is an imprint from Hollywood that younger people have been looking towards in the last few years. I think it is that young women think they want that type of guy, but the trend will run its course.
It is an imprint from Hollywood that younger people have been looking towards in the last few years. I think it is that young women think they want that type of guy, but the trend will run its course.
bunch of haters here. metro guys are just regular guys that keep their physique in great shape at all times. your 2 afc friends get laid while you masturbate yourself to sleep every night.
time to work on that beer belly and shave please.
time to work on that beer belly and shave please.
Someone Much cooler
Senior Don Juan
I think clean cut is good but metro is drawlin a lil. I like to were Ralph lauren polo, but the way they dress up their male models is def not how i like to carry myself. Alot of em def look homo
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Kenny Powers
Senior Don Juan
Eating well, staying in shape and working on your appearance are not metro. But wearing girl jeans, being weak, and acting like a chick are.
Sometimes though its not even about physical appearance, you can just tell when a guy is a weak-metro-beta. Its all about attitude and confidence. I do some metro-stuff but I don't like act like pvssy.
The OP mentioned how one guy gained confidence from being with a girl and the other would follow girls he liked around. Sounds pretty AFC to me.
I don't have anything against metro-guys, they make me look good. Just like how the abnoxious roided-up backwards visor wearing deuce-bags make me look good too.
Sometimes though its not even about physical appearance, you can just tell when a guy is a weak-metro-beta. Its all about attitude and confidence. I do some metro-stuff but I don't like act like pvssy.
The OP mentioned how one guy gained confidence from being with a girl and the other would follow girls he liked around. Sounds pretty AFC to me.
I don't have anything against metro-guys, they make me look good. Just like how the abnoxious roided-up backwards visor wearing deuce-bags make me look good too.
Kailex
Master Don Juan
For the sake of argument... even if those two ARE AFC's...
What makes you think that there is a rule stating: All AFC's do NOT get laid.
There is no absolutes to this theory of AFC's. You CAN'T state that all of them AREN'T getting laid.
And the subsequent problem with labeling someone an AFC is that you could never be 100% sure if they really are an AFC. Maybe they are shy and quiet around YOU, but when they are with their girls, they are assertive and take command and are dominating and that drives them CRAZY.
This is why we must be very careful when assessing what is AFC and what isn't and who is and who isn't according to OUR standards. What could be AFC to you could be Alpha Male to that nerdy chic who likes anime.
In the end, even if they are true AFC's, they are most likely an exception to the rule... simple outliers... and eventual candidates to having their hearts broken when someone better than them shows up in their girlfriends' lives.
What makes you think that there is a rule stating: All AFC's do NOT get laid.
There is no absolutes to this theory of AFC's. You CAN'T state that all of them AREN'T getting laid.
And the subsequent problem with labeling someone an AFC is that you could never be 100% sure if they really are an AFC. Maybe they are shy and quiet around YOU, but when they are with their girls, they are assertive and take command and are dominating and that drives them CRAZY.
This is why we must be very careful when assessing what is AFC and what isn't and who is and who isn't according to OUR standards. What could be AFC to you could be Alpha Male to that nerdy chic who likes anime.
In the end, even if they are true AFC's, they are most likely an exception to the rule... simple outliers... and eventual candidates to having their hearts broken when someone better than them shows up in their girlfriends' lives.
Forty0ztoFreedom
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I'm in a liberal part of the country and you see this quite a bit, actually.
You should have seen this one guy a girl I know used to date. He had these 'bangs' . . perfectly straightened hair, going down half his face. I told her many times how ridiculous it looks. I swear he wore makeup too.
And in the liberal-er parts of this liberal part of the country, most of the time the girl is dating another girl, or a twerpy hipster with clothes he must have gotten from the kid's section they're so tight. DJ's these men are not, I can tell you that. In fact they're often shy and reserved clones of each other.
You should have seen this one guy a girl I know used to date. He had these 'bangs' . . perfectly straightened hair, going down half his face. I told her many times how ridiculous it looks. I swear he wore makeup too.
And in the liberal-er parts of this liberal part of the country, most of the time the girl is dating another girl, or a twerpy hipster with clothes he must have gotten from the kid's section they're so tight. DJ's these men are not, I can tell you that. In fact they're often shy and reserved clones of each other.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
They're effeminate HerbsS.U.R.F. said:
More specifically they're Hipster Herbs.
I'd like to see pics of their girlfriends.