"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey, I just started school 2 weeks ago (been sick), and I used to be in an all boys school but this yr some girls came in.

why Is it that those girls keep ignoring me when they talk to my friends? and like when i add a comment they just seem to ignore me...

need some advices and thoughts here

and btw im not ugly or anything.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You either intimidate or annoy them.
 
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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
You either intimidate or annoy them.
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nah, can't be that.
Maybe because im kind of goofy in class? doing weird sounds and making everyone laugh, could it be that?
 
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Originally posted by 1life
nah, can't be that.
Maybe because im kind of goofy in class? doing weird sounds and making everyone laugh, could it be that?
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Right, weird sounds and goofy...that would fall under annoying them.
 
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yea but it makes them laugh in class...
so what kind of attitude should I adopt then?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by whyshy
****y and Funny (C+F)
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yea, i hear you, but like they just seem to ignore me, i dont know what to do, I don't want to be seen like needy of their attention by acting ****y and funny.

Should I just ignore them too or bust them balls:D
 
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Just slap one of them and the rest will all be nice to you :)
 
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Originally posted by 1life
yea, i hear you, but like they just seem to ignore me, i dont know what to do, I don't want to be seen like needy of their attention by acting ****y and funny.

Should I just ignore them too or bust them balls:D
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C AND F rarely fails. Have you tried it and you failed with these girls?

If you didn't then try.
 
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all guys school....whats urdad a lutenent in the army?...i would never tourcher my child like that! NEVer
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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